Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

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On a different site a guy asked in frustration, “Do women really like to watch a guy Jerk off?”

From my experiences I certainly can say: yes some do, some like it a lot.

It is very easy to masturbate in front of girlfriends, so I assume what he was asking about is masturbating in front of strangers or others that he is not yet intimate with.

Are women more inclined to an element of intimate connection and men to the excitement of something new including with strangers? Certainly, but here there are also many exceptions.

Once when I was working security at an outdoor three-day concert a couple friends of a woman there told me (laughing) that their friend was a voyeur and that she was hanging out around the showers to get peaks at the men. Naturally I approached her and asked her if she wanted to go skinny-dipping. When she said yes we went down to the lake together and went swimming. When I got out of the water she looked away. I asked her what was the matter. She said she was just embarrassed. I told her that if she wanted to look, I wanted her to look. She smiled and as I stood there naked a little over an ankle deep in water her eyes scanned my entire body over and then focused on my cock. My cock grew very hard. I was not yet touching it. Still smiling she asked, “What are you going to do with that?” I asked her if she wanted me to give her a show. She said she was already getting one and that I should feel free to add on anything I like. I then began stroking my cock and gyrating my ass. I stroked my cock and danced for her for a couple hours. I came twice for her as she watched. Before cumming the second time I put my cock inside her and quickly brought her to orgasm.

I enjoyed the experience a lot, as did she. I’ve had a number of other experiences masturbating for women that were equally unique and enjoyable. While I certainly don't limit myself to such pleasures, I do not deny them.

Strippers and other nude images are much more available to men that enjoy nude women, than the other way around. I think this is partly because there is much less demand from women for it than from men, but some women do enjoy a free no strings attached naked man to play with or watch, so I do my best to bring equality to women's erotic adventures, one free strip show at a time.
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  • Re: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

    Tue, May 15, 2007 - 9:32 AM
    I love this story - always on the lookout for that sort of opportunity but thus far, no luck.
    I'm an exhibitionist but I need to know I have consent before showing anything. Tends to cut down on the opportunities, but it keeps me out of trouble :-)
  • Re: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

    Fri, May 18, 2007 - 3:00 PM
    I am not a big exhibitionist... But I am not shy about having sex when the opportunity arrives under standard circumstances. And yes, I agree that there are many ladies in this world that enjoy seeing a man masturbate. I personally know of one lady She's close friend. I have never been in a relationship with her. But I know she enjoys this type of activity immensely. She has told me that one of her favorite activities is to watch a guy masturbate in front of his webcam while online. She says it thrills her to no end.
  • Re: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

    Sat, May 19, 2007 - 7:55 PM
    I would love to be an exhibitionist. But I wouldn't feel safe doing that just anywhere. I'm a woman, after all! I prefer to do it in a safe context, such as when on a "hot date" or at a sexual performance show, the latter of which I haven't done in YEARS, much to my regret. Ah, if only I could start my own Erotic Theater! Gee, what a bright idea!
    I've been a Voyeuse, also, for sure. I've been staring at too many women's titties, and also asses. Gee, I wish I could see more men's hard-ons!
    In my show, I'd love to get an audience of horny men and women, and talk dirty to certain select men and women. I'd keep my hot talk respectful. Maybe I'd strip for the crowd, or masturbate in front of them. Maybe I'd encourage women to take their tops off and dance around. Maybe I'd deliberately provoke some guy into a hard-on, just to see his boner.
    Nice thoughts, eh?
    Linda has some dreams that just won't die. Regardless of apparent present-day lack of opportunity.
    Meanwhile, I have to restrain myself from wolf-whistling or commenting on men's and women's sexy bodies! Especially breasts or asses! Squeezable, fuckable, makeloveable!

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