I think we ALL "want to be fucked for ourselves". We bi-sexual women get fetishized, also. I haven't lost any limbs, but I get very irritated when I hear of the latest Stupid Teen trend.... "bi-sexual chick".... where two girls kiss like Madonna and Britney, JUST to make the guys horny.... yuk! When I get to kiss my woman, it will be JUST FOR US, and not to arouse any male bystanders....
I dare any of these Stupid Teenagers to watch two GUYS kiss, in that way, and their girlfriends surround them and yell, "KISS!!! Go for it!" And a double-dog dare to the girlfriend who says, "Go ahead, baby, you may go DOWN on your boyfriend.... and please, can I share in the fun?" THAT is TRUE bi-sexual fun. Bi-sexual.... um, it goes both ways.... ;-)

Crypto, assume that you will be sexual again. And with a lover who loves YOU for who you ARE, and doesn't mind the fact that you are missing your legs!
I am learning NOT to sabotage my chances of finding love. I avoid self-put-downs and wanton pessimism.